There are some things you just can’t change, no matter how hard you try. You can only make a change, when the objective you’re working so hard to achieve is actually attainable. There’s a lot in life you just can’t change. So, here is a list of ten things that will never change in life.
1. The Lost.
You can replace a lost investment, or find a new mate, but there’s no point trying to change the fact that sometimes, what’s lost is gone forever. Quit beating yourself up and focus on developing things that can make a difference in your daily life.
2. Where You Came From.
Privilege is a real thing, there’s no denying it. You can’t do a thing to change where you came from and the circumstances or situation you were born into, but you control where you’re going. You might also have to fight harder than others.
3. The Past.
We can never change something that has already happened. There are no re-dos in real life like in the ones in the computer. Stop dwelling on the past, you can’t change it. Pull your socks up and keep moving. Yesterday is over. You can’t get it back.
4. You’ll Never Get the Best Always.
You’re always going to know someone with a nicer car, bigger house, better job, hotter partner, etc. Quit wasting your time trying to be someone you’re not. Life’s not a competition. Just accept that you’ll never get the best always.
5. Other People.
You can request, suggest, demand, but you can’t always change another person’s thoughts, actions, feelings and also what they say. You can’t make anyone like, love or forgive you. You can’t win their respect if they’re not willing to give it.
6. The World.
It’s nice and inspirational and all to think one person could actually change the world, but some things are just bigger than all of us. You can definitely make a difference in the world around you, that’s not a problem.
7. Getting Older.
Every single day of our lives, we get older and one day closer to death. It is inevitable. We cannot change this, even though some people try fighting this phenomenon. Getting older is a way to remind ourselves that time is precious.
8. Our Family.
We do not choose our family members, like we do with the friends. We had no choice in being born and who our father, mother, siblings, and extended family members are. Like it or not, we will be forever linked that way.
9. True Love.
True love will never change. This comprises of love between children and their mothers and love between couples. Love is the only thing that makes our loved one’s smile. Despite of the situations or conditions true love remains same forever.
10. Change Itself.
Lastly, we cannot change the fact that change itself is inevitable. Much of the depression, sadness and anxiety that people feel today is because they do not accept change. Accept the fact that everything changes at some point.
“Only the wisest and stupidest of men never change.”Confucius.